Expect!
How much knowing oneself is important? Will that help us to put ourselves out of misery? Like my sister said, you have to come in terms with yourself. You have to accept the way you are and the way others are. Dont blame someone for your unhappiness. Dont expect someone to keep you happy. Why wld anyone do that for you? Because they are your parents? Because they are your kids? It doesnt work like that. The day you realize you are expecting someone else to keep you happy, is the day you are inviting days of sorrow for Yourself. Everyone lives for themselves. At the end of the day, they think about the things that will help them grow. And whats wrong in that? This might sound a bit selfish but what you are missing is to understand that we are responsible for our life, not for anyone else's life. You are not accountable to anyone else but you. You are not taking the onus of someone else because you are not meant to do so. You are meant to take care of yourself first and always, and...